Olaiya Land
Certified Pleasure and Sexual Empowerment Coach
(she/her)
I’m a certified, trauma-informed coach, dedicated to creating a safe, supportive space where true transformation can unfold.
With deep training in somatic healing, tantra-based intimacy, sacred sexuality, and gentle trauma release, my work guides you through healing both the mind and body. This journey is about more than just change—it’s about awakening profound, lasting shifts that bring you into a life of greater joy, confidence, self-acceptance, and pleasure.
As a Black, biracial, queer, poly, and kink-positive individual, I hold a deep belief that all bodies are good bodies, deserving of love and celebration.
I spent years of my life at war with my body and detached from my sensuality. Wrestling with frustration and self-doubt. Feeling like there had to be more to sex than this.
I understand the struggle—those years spent disconnected from your own body, detached from your sensuality, feeling like something essential is missing.
And I know how healing it can be to finally hold yourself with love and enjoy deeply pleasurable sex.
I have seen the profound healing that comes from embracing yourself with compassion. The joy of experiencing deeply satisfying, soul-nourishing pleasure. I’ve seen this transformation in myself, and time and again in my clients—watching them move from disconnection and numbness to feeling vibrant, alive, and fully embodied in their sexuality.
Because great sex is more than just pleasure. (Though YES to that.)
It’s transformational.
Learning to be present in your body during intimacy teaches you how to be more present, grounded, and confident in every part of your life. It’s about reclaiming the full, unapologetic joy of being alive.
That’s why my work centers on helping you reconnect with the wisdom of your body, to unlock the kind of awe-inspiring, life-changing sex you deserve.
If you feel the call to come home to yourself, reclaim your pleasure and dive into deep, erotic bliss, it would be my honor to walk alongside you on this journey.
Areas of Focus
I specialize in guiding people to:
Embrace deep self-acceptance and cultivate a loving relationship with their bodies
Release lingering shame and rediscover the freedom to be fully themselves
Unlock greater levels of sexual pleasure and delight in their sensuality
Experience profound, full-body orgasms that resonate throughout their entire being
Explore new realms of pleasure, from G-spot and cervical orgasms to energy orgasms and beyond
Achieve their first orgasm regardless of age (It’s never too late for expanding your pleasure)
Connect with their authentic sexual needs, explore desires, and communicate them with confidence
Explore consensual non-monogamy and polyamory, creating connections in alignment with your values and desires
Fees
My rates vary based on the depth and scope of our coaching journey together. To get started, I offer a complimentary Pleasure Exploration Call—a chance for us to connect, explore your needs, and see if we’re the right fit for each other.
Location
Sessions are held virtually for your convenience, with in-person appointments available upon request.
Scheduling Information
Ready to discover what’s possible? Click here to schedule your free Pleasure Exploration Call and see if we’re a great fit.
If you have any questions, don’t hesitate to reach out at hello@wearelionesse.com.
For more details, visit www.wearelionesse.com.